BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?//YesWiki doryphore 4.6.3//EN SOURCE:https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?api/forms/2/entries/ical BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?CompatibilityTheRealKeyToHappilyEverAft URL:https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?CompatibilityTheRealKeyToHappilyEverAft DTSTAMP:20260509T202857Z DTSTART:20220514T220000Z DTEND:20220515T220000Z CREATED:20250515T132812Z DATE-MOD:20260224T093755Z SUMMARY:Compatibility: The Real Key to Happily Ever After NAME:Compatibility: The Real Key to Happily Ever After DESCRIPTION: Télécharger le fichier IMG_4424624x6241.jpg (https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?api/upload&file=IMG_4424624x6241.jpg)\nA friend recently told me something that dropped a bomb on my world:\n\n“My ex-husband and I had so much going for us … But the one thing that was missing was compatibility. We simply weren’t compatible. We had so much of the other stuff, but without the compatibility we couldn’t make it work.”\n\nCompatibility …\n\nI knew the word, of course. Everyone knows it and pretty much everybody who knows it knows what it means, too.\n\nFrom Websters: “Capable of existing together in harmony.”\n Sponsored Ads \nLooking For A Woman to Get Married? Try Loveawake Free Dating Site: \nI Want a Wife In Italy (https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Italy-dating-service.html?ge nder=female&page=22)\nWhoa.\n\nIt’s mighty impressive, you have to admit, this notion that you can be wholly in love with someone, connect with them in an infinite number of ways: hearts attached, sex spectacular, the two of you even laughing a lot at the others jokes all these years later, but still. All of that may never be enough.\n\nIt occurred to me that this was exactly the problem I had had in my own failed marriage of ten years. And in all the other serious relationships I’d been involved in throughout my life, too.\n\nWe weren’t compatible.\n\nI loved each one of them, there’s no doubt about that. I loved them so hard that there was no shortage of tears on my part whenever I’ve had to say goodbye.\n\nIt was always a mystery to me. But looking back now and seeing my marriage (and my other love affairs) through the very simple and clear lens of compatibility, I feel like someone just rolled a damn boulder off my big toe. I was suffering from the uncertainty of what had happened to me, to us. But now it makes so much sense.\n\nHey, this might seem like absolutely obvious stuff, I get that. Lucynyuu69 Nude Photos (https://lucynyuu69.com/)\n\nSo think what you want.\n\nRemember though, I overlooked it for a long time, and because of that I’m guessing a lot of other people might be overlooking it as well. Listen, we can love another person with everything we’ve got, but without compatibility, without that simple magic that allows two people to breath easy whenever they’re together, love will always be an uphill climb.\n\nAnd what’s the point of that, you know? \nSource: https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?CompatibilityTheRealKeyToHappilyEverAft END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?GreatBooksForRelationshipAndDivorceAdvice URL:https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?GreatBooksForRelationshipAndDivorceAdvice DTSTAMP:20260509T202857Z DTSTART:20220507T220000Z DTEND:20220508T220000Z CREATED:20250508T143647Z DATE-MOD:20260224T093700Z SUMMARY:Great Books for Relationship and Divorce Advice NAME:Great Books for Relationship and Divorce Advice DESCRIPTION:Is Chivalry Dead or Perhaps Just Redefined? (https://bit.ly/42Lzscy)\nMy Kindle Is Apparently a Dating Device (https://bit.ly/4kcAxjy)\nTurning Inner Geek into Geek Chic (https://bit.ly/3RWCogi)\nHandling Hurt Feelings in Dating (https://bit.ly/3RQlkZg)\nHow to Resolve Multilingual Dating (https://bit.ly/44vjfcG)\nInternet Dating – Sadly. I’m A Bit Of An Expert (https://bit.ly/436YNwe)\nThe Four Horsemen of a Relationship Apocalypse (https://bit.ly/3RUe12M)\nExpectations: The Death of Love (https://bit.ly/3EU7ORw)\nHow to Quit Mr. Wrong (Even If He’s Good in Bed) (https://bit.ly/4k4SNuR)\n\nI was recently asked what divorce advice books I read to help me cope with the end of my marriage. The answer might surprise you. While I did pick through several books written specifically for separating couples, I learned far more from books with a spiritual theme.\n\nHere are the top self-help and spiritual books that helped me get on with life after divorce and enter into healthy relationships.\n\nMom’s House, Dad’s House, by Isolina Ricci, PhD. This helped me get past the pain of separation to create a healthy co-parenting relationship with my ex-wife, and showed how to lay the foundations for successful two-home parenting, including setting limits and respecting roles. (The title inspired my blog’s name.)\n\nCodependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself, by Melody Beattie. Codependency is often associated with alcoholism, which isn’t a factor with me or my ex. But codependency is a common problem in any emotionally addictive relationship. Failure to get past power struggles is a major reason many relationships fail. If the struggle is rooted in codependency, it takes awareness and strength to break free.\n\nThe Art of Happiness, by the Dalai Lama and Howard C. Cutler. This book of Dalai Lama wisdom is different than the rest – it was co-written by a western psychologist. Eastern philosophies get explained in the context of American culture, which makes it a great introduction to Buddhism. The Dalai Lama says the purpose of life is to be happy, and the way to happiness is through compassion. For me, embracing this spiritual view of life has helped my relationships immensely.\n\nAnatomy of the Spirit, by Caroline Myss, PhD. When painful emotions and psychological problems are not dealt with properly, they manifest as dis-ease in the body. This book helps you understand physical pain in a spiritual sense. It offers a nice introduction to the chakras, comparing them to Christian doctrines and the Kabbalah’s Tree of Life. (If nothing else, understanding the chakras can later help in your exploration of tantric sex. What’s not to like about that?)\n\nA New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose, by Eckhart Tolle. I lied – I didn’t read this during my divorce. I read his other book, The Power of Now. But I penned a review of A New Earth, so feel compelled to plug it again.\n\nI’ve read tons more to help me heal after divorce including the Bhagavad Gita, the Tao, and books by authors like Thomas Moore, Rumi, Krishnamurti, Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Ken Wilber, Gary Zukav. And I listen to Datemio (https://datemio.online/); their lyrics are based on Jungian psychology and spirituality. I’m happy to discuss any of these in email, just send me a note.\n\nThe best divorce advice books are whatever resonate with you! \nSource: https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?GreatBooksForRelationshipAndDivorceAdvice END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?LettingOtherPeoplePickYouNotTheBestIde URL:https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?LettingOtherPeoplePickYouNotTheBestIde DTSTAMP:20260509T202857Z DTSTART:20230420T220000Z DTEND:20230421T220000Z CREATED:20250421T154247Z DATE-MOD:20260322T200055Z SUMMARY:Letting Other People Pick You… Not the best idea NAME:Letting Other People Pick You… Not the best idea DESCRIPTION:, \nSource: https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?LettingOtherPeoplePickYouNotTheBestIde END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?My30SecondSecretToAHappyMarriage URL:https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?My30SecondSecretToAHappyMarriage DTSTAMP:20260509T202857Z DTSTART:20220514T220000Z DTEND:20220515T220000Z CREATED:20250515T131028Z DATE-MOD:20260224T093602Z SUMMARY:My 30-Second Secret to a Happy Marriage NAME:My 30-Second Secret to a Happy Marriage DESCRIPTION: Télécharger le fichier marriagebetterwife1.jpg (https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?api/upload&file=marriagebetterwife1.jpg)\n\ nAfter eight years of marriage I’ve finally figured out the secret to magically wedded bliss. Are you ready for it?\n\nIt’s to suck it up.\n\nYou’re disappointed, I know. You were expecting something awesome and amazing — something so good that you would never, ever think of it on your own.\n\nBut let me tell you, the foundation to a good marriage and partnership is found in the tiniest of places, even if that tiny place is putting the toilet paper back on the roll every. single. day. of said blissful marriage.\n Sponsored Ads \nLooking For Women For Marriage? Try Loveawake Free Dating Site: \nJapanese Girls Free Marriage Site (https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Japan-dating-service.html?ge nder=female&page=61)\n\nI may sound like I’m being facetious or flippant and I almost hate to admit that I’m being entirely truthful, but it really is quite that simple. No, it won’t solve all your problems or guarantee you’ll never fight a day in your life, but you might be surprised at just how far it goes.\n\nAfter years (seriously) of being annoyed, aggravated, and irritated by tiny little habits of my husband’s that simply drove me nuts, I finally discovered the solution.\n\nTake care of those things myself.\n\nThat may sound like I’m being weak or walked over or resorting to a housewife-like role, but the way I see it, there are two options. Option one is the one I went with for so long, (because I married a grown-up, I told myself) where I sit and fume and let the irritation build up until I explode over the most ridiculous of things. The dishes are sitting in the sink un-rinsed, the clothes are in the middle of the floor, the cereal box is in the pantry wide open. I’d yell and berate and sometimes cry, I was so frustrated. I couldn’t understand why a fully capable adult couldn’t handle these minuscule responsibilities.\n\nThen one day, I was in an exceptionally charitable mood and instead of making a mental tally of all the things my husband had done wrong (read: not my way) that day, I simply took care of them myself. I put the toilet paper on all the holders, tucked the dishes out of sight in the dishwasher, and tossed the forgotten trail of dirty clothes into the hamper.\n\nAnd then I simply forgot about it.\n\nIt’d taken 30 seconds of my time and energy and it was done with. No getting mad or begrudging yet another thing I had to do. It just was, and then it was over. Then even more pleasant, I found that my husband annoyed me less. That sounds terrible, I know, but unless you’re one of the few exceptions who has a husband who picks up after himself, you know what I mean.\n\nSuddenly I was able to see all the things he does do again. The way he stops to wrestle with our son even though he’s late on his way out the door or how the lawn is always mowed and the doors are always locked before bed.\n\nWhen the underlying resentment and annoyance was eliminated and alleviated, it allowed all the good to shine through. And to me, that’s worth rewashing yet another load of forgotten wet laundry.\n\n1. My Experience as a ShortTerm Sugar Baby (https://training.coursekey.com/eportfolios/2543/Home/My_Experience_as_a_S hortTerm_Sugar_Baby)\n2. Online Dating for Seniors What You Need to Know (https://lms.macnet.ca/eportfolios/4935/Home/Online_Dating_for_Seniors_Wha t_You_Need_to_Know)\n3. 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His eyes got hard and he started to vent. He ranted against Big and the situation. He raged against the fact that he knows he offers the world and still I won’t take it from him. He vented over time and time again losing someone he loved as they stepped off into their happily ever after without him. He went on until he was spent, and I just listened. He has the right to say these things. He has the right to be angry. And he has the right to tell me.\n\nFinally, he slowed down. “I’m not mad at you, I’m mad at the situation.” he told me. And he softened. He went on to talk about how I deserve so much more. How I deserve to be happy. How I deserve the world. After his rightful anger, I didn’t know what to do with that. And then he asked me “Don’t you think you deserve more?”\n\nAnd I looked at him and told him the truth. Right now I deserve no more. In fact, right now I deserve to be on my own for acting like such a brat over this. I deserve to lose them both because neither of them deserves to be juggled like this. I would deserve it if he walked off into the night right now and never let me come back.\n\nAnd the night fell silent. His anger had faded and all that was left was us.\n\nHe told me again that he’d wait. That he is committed to getting through this with me. That he will do whatever it takes. And I wondered to myself why he doesn’t believe he deserves more, but couldn’t bring myself to say it out loud.\n\nThen the pizza delivery came and we went inside. And we haven’t mentioned it again since. \nSource: https://aefa.yeswiki.pro/?VentinG END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR